So our RSVPs are slowly starting to roll in. Of the 200 guests invited, probably 180 are OOT guests - a lot of whom are FI's family/extended family/friends from MN where they are originally from. We are, understandably, getting declines. More of them are from FI's side of the list than mine.
He's getting increasingly more upset as the declines come in. We knew having our wedding where we live, not where the bulk of our guests live, would run the risk of many people not being able to attend. But I think he thought everyone would be like YEAH VEGAS TRIP and come anyways. This is not the case.
Did anyone else experience this kind of disappointment?? I don't know how to make him feel better about it and he's just becoming passive aggressive about it. Grrrrrrr men.