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Some Bitch at the Grocery Store

So H and I went shopping today. We always get a little wet food for our Siamese as a treat, so I stopped in the pet aisle.

A lady was standing there, blocking most of the brand I get (Purina One Healthy Metabolism), so I reached over and grabbed a couple of cans that were within reach.

She said, without looking at me, "You know... that brand is full of GMOs..."

Sigh. I ignored her, moved to her left, and grabbed a couple more cans within reach. I hoped she'd take a hint, but she wouldn't fucking budge.

She continued, "Iams is the only brand that has all-natural ingredients."

At that point, I figured I'd just play nice and then move on. I said, "I know, but Iams makes our kitty sick," hoping that would end it. (Plus, it's true. Iams does make her sick.)

So THEN this bitch said, "Well, she probably gets sick because she's not used to eating real food after eating all that poison you're feeding her."

I got super-flushed and looked right at her. I must have looked murderous because H touched my arm and said, "Hey... where to next? We need garbage bags, right?" and kind of steered me away.

I've been fuming about this on and off all day. She hit a very sensitive area for me. I just took Samantha to the vet for a checkup, and she's fine. The vet even nodded and approved what we're feeding her. She gets lots of exercise, tooth cleanings when she needs them, vaccines, ear cleanings when she gets waxy, and so much love it's ridiculous. We rescued both of our animals from the shelter and treat them like royalty.

The fact that she insinuated I POISON my cat and said it in a snarky tone without even LOOKING at me is too much for me. H keeps saying, "She's just some random bitch at the grocery store. Let it go." 

Normally, I CAN let these things go, but for some reason, I'm mad that I didn't snap back at her. I feel like it's unfinished somehow. I was venting to H all the way through the store, saying things like, "Yeah, I just dropped $400 on the vet visit because I don't care about Samantha. Maybe I shouldn't have rescued her from the pound either."

I KNOW it's ridiculous. I mean, seriously. She was babbling about GMOs in cat food. I don't know why it's bothering me so much. Maybe it's because she accused me of being a terrible pet owner. It hit a nerve, that's for sure.

Please to be making soothing noises. I know I'm overreacting. 

I just remembered we have Captain Morgan Parrot Bay, so I may run out for some orange juice so I can make a nice, tall, tropical, delicious drink. :)
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Re: Some Bitch at the Grocery Store

  • You should drink that! V has a grocery store foe but for a whole different reason. Sometimes the meats go on sale so we always check to see. I wasn't there but V told me that he saw this woman scoop up All the chicken wings on sale. There were like 10 packages....V was very upset haha. Some people have nerve/lack basic manners.
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  • You should drink that! V has a grocery store foe but for a whole different reason. Sometimes the meats go on sale so we always check to see. I wasn't there but V told me that he saw this woman scoop up All the chicken wings on sale. There were like 10 packages....V was very upset haha. Some people have nerve/lack basic manners.
    Your sig picture is so appropriate right now. :)

    I really don't get it. 99.9% of the time, I can totally blow things off, roll my eyes, and get on with my day. She just managed to strike the right nerve at the right time.
  • Ugh, that stuff really annoys me. I don't really buy the "GMO's are bad" line and I know so many people who cheer every time some crop gets banned, even though many of them could really do good in areas facing poverty and hunger and overall bad conditions. It's an aesthetic thing.
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  • UGH I hate it when people do crap to me like that re: my pets. Our kitty has an eye infection, which apparently needs to be treated with ointment we put ON HIS EYEBALL at least twice a day.

    Yes, tell me more about how I don't take care of my cats. Please.

    I would be ragey, too. Rage on!!! Stupid grocery store lady.
  • rcher912 said:
    UGH I hate it when people do crap to me like that re: my pets. Our kitty has an eye infection, which apparently needs to be treated with ointment we put ON HIS EYEBALL at least twice a day.

    Yes, tell me more about how I don't take care of my cats. Please.

    I would be ragey, too. Rage on!!! Stupid grocery store lady.
    Awww... poor kitty. :(

    Not that I'm one of those people who compares having pets to having kids, but now I seriously get why some people get pissed the hell off when some Mombie snarks at them for giving their kids fruit snacks.

    If H hadn't been there, I seriously would have told her to back the fuck off so I could grab my cans of cat poison and GTFO.
  • I almost always hate when strangers talk to me anyway, so this would annoy me, too. You really should just forget it, though. It happened, you can't do anything about it, and you will never see the bitch again.
    What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14
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  • Sorry, that's really fucking annoying of that bitch! Probably good that your husband was there to move it along before you freaked out on her haha

    Listen to this shit- myself and an old man were in our cars facing each other. There was an open parking space and we both sat there not moving, waiting for the other person to take the spot. We each pointed at it and kind of waved for the other person to take it, then sat for another minute and finally I was like ok guess he's not going, so I parked. Not thinking anything of it. 5 minutes later this man storms up to me in the cheese section and starts yelling at me and calling me a fucking bitch for stealing his spot! I'm like are you fucking crazy? He is going on and on, like "I can't believe you would do such a thing, you inconsiderate little bitch" I was stunned and people were gathering around watching. I yelled "go fuck yourself, get the fuck away from me!" and luckily some people were kind of watching me to make sure he wasn't following me around. It was nuts. I wish DH had been with me. 

                                                                     

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  • jenna8984 said:
    Sorry, that's really fucking annoying of that bitch! Probably good that your husband was there to move it along before you freaked out on her haha

    Listen to this shit- myself and an old man were in our cars facing each other. There was an open parking space and we both sat there not moving, waiting for the other person to take the spot. We each pointed at it and kind of waved for the other person to take it, then sat for another minute and finally I was like ok guess he's not going, so I parked. Not thinking anything of it. 5 minutes later this man storms up to me in the cheese section and starts yelling at me and calling me a fucking bitch for stealing his spot! I'm like are you fucking crazy? He is going on and on, like "I can't believe you would do such a thing, you inconsiderate little bitch" I was stunned and people were gathering around watching. I yelled "go fuck yourself, get the fuck away from me!" and luckily some people were kind of watching me to make sure he wasn't following me around. It was nuts. I wish DH had been with me. 
    Holy crap!
  • huskypuppy14huskypuppy14 member
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    edited February 2015
    So H and I went shopping today. We always get a little wet food for our Siamese as a treat, so I stopped in the pet aisle.

    A lady was standing there, blocking most of the brand I get (Purina One Healthy Metabolism), so I reached over and grabbed a couple of cans that were within reach.

    She said, without looking at me, "You know... that brand is full of GMOs..."

    Sigh. I ignored her, moved to her left, and grabbed a couple more cans within reach. I hoped she'd take a hint, but she wouldn't fucking budge.

    She continued, "Iams is the only brand that has all-natural ingredients."

    At that point, I figured I'd just play nice and then move on. I said, "I know, but Iams makes our kitty sick," hoping that would end it. (Plus, it's true. Iams does make her sick.)

    So THEN this bitch said, "Well, she probably gets sick because she's not used to eating real food after eating all that poison you're feeding her."

    I got super-flushed and looked right at her. I must have looked murderous because H touched my arm and said, "Hey... where to next? We need garbage bags, right?" and kind of steered me away.

    I've been fuming about this on and off all day. She hit a very sensitive area for me. I just took Samantha to the vet for a checkup, and she's fine. The vet even nodded and approved what we're feeding her. She gets lots of exercise, tooth cleanings when she needs them, vaccines, ear cleanings when she gets waxy, and so much love it's ridiculous. We rescued both of our animals from the shelter and treat them like royalty.

    The fact that she insinuated I POISON my cat and said it in a snarky tone without even LOOKING at me is too much for me. H keeps saying, "She's just some random bitch at the grocery store. Let it go." 

    Normally, I CAN let these things go, but for some reason, I'm mad that I didn't snap back at her. I feel like it's unfinished somehow. I was venting to H all the way through the store, saying things like, "Yeah, I just dropped $400 on the vet visit because I don't care about Samantha. Maybe I shouldn't have rescued her from the pound either."

    I KNOW it's ridiculous. I mean, seriously. She was babbling about GMOs in cat food. I don't know why it's bothering me so much. Maybe it's because she accused me of being a terrible pet owner. It hit a nerve, that's for sure.

    Please to be making soothing noises. I know I'm overreacting. 

    I just remembered we have Captain Morgan Parrot Bay, so I may run out for some orange juice so I can make a nice, tall, tropical, delicious drink. :)
    I don't know much about cat foods,but I know Iams was not recommended for dog food. And doing a quick search the cat food reviews give Iams 1 star, and purina one 3, so I think this woman has no idea what she's talking about.  It's definitely not the only brand that has all natural ingredients (if that is even true).

    Even if she didn't agree with your cat food choice, she's not your vet, so she should keep her mouth shut. 

    ETA: I bet this woman had all kinds of processed food for her in her cart. I'd be pissed if someone felt the need to critique my shopping choices.
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  • Thanks, Husky! I was going to fact-check a bit when I got home but forgot. :)
  • edited February 2015

    You definitely should drink the rum.

    I went shopping today, too. It was hell. We're expecting 8 -14 inches of snow on top of the two feet that are out there, the Superbowl is tomorrow. So we have storm shoppers, special event shoppers and regular weekend shoppers, all acting stupid in the market today. It's America, drive your shopping cart on the right, dammit.





                       
  • What the hell?

    Sorrynotsorry, but I can't help by laugh at someone buying Iams  trying to be all high and mighty over pet food.

    I don't even buy grocery dog food.  Well except for raw meats that I get for them from the meat dept.  That is my choice, as I feel like there are much better dog foods available for my own dogs.   I certainly would never try to shame people for their own choices. Especially if I'm buying Iams myself.  Their dog, their choice.  What works for mine might not work for yours.   






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  • What a bitch! I try to buy the healthier dry cat food at the grocery store- not too many options there and the organic wet food is too pricey! I'd buy it if I could- but I would NEVER comment on a stranger's purchases or even judge anyone for buying Purina vs Iams. And I'm pretty sure Iams isn't actually "all natural" either- everything has that label nowadays and it doesn't mean anything.

    Sometime I get ragey like that too and can't let it go because like you said, you wished you had said something back to her then. I think of all these comebacks after the fact and I'm like damnit why didn't I think of that before! You know you love your pet. Breathe and try to forget that bitch.

     




  • Shit like this makes me wish the grocery store delivered to my house.
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  • Some people get a little bit of information and all of a sudden they're experts. For the record my cats get Purina One also. Every time we go in the vet remarks on their healthy weight and coats and tells me to keep feeding whatever I'm feeding them. Sounds to me like you're a wonderful and caring pet owner :)
  • You should drink that! V has a grocery store foe but for a whole different reason. Sometimes the meats go on sale so we always check to see. I wasn't there but V told me that he saw this woman scoop up All the chicken wings on sale. There were like 10 packages....V was very upset haha. Some people have nerve/lack basic manners.
    Your sig picture is so appropriate right now. :)

    I really don't get it. 99.9% of the time, I can totally blow things off, roll my eyes, and get on with my day. She just managed to strike the right nerve at the right time.
    Its how I usually feel haha! I think we all have those days and want to say fuck it, I don't want to be the bigger person.
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  • I'm right there with you; when I don't stand up for myself or snap back with bitches like that, it bothers me, and I know I should let it go, but it keeps making me mad. I get it.

    But let's be real here.

    She snarked at you cuz her life fucking sucks. She sucks and she knows it. She's a miserable unhappy bitch. You win.
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  • Oh man I would have had the same reaction. I'd try not to dwell on it, but man...what a mega bitch.




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  • I always think of things that I should have said after someone pisses me off.  I tend to get stunned into silence and then kick myself afterwards for not thinking of things to reply with on the spot.

    I'd say don't think about the bitch, but I'm also terrible about moving past things when I get annoyed - it will bug me for hours later.  But really....what a bitch!
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  • CMGragain said:
    You should have said, "Really?  From where did you get your veterinary degree?"

    If I had a dollar for every time I wanted to say that, I would have paid off my student loans by now.
    @wrigleyville‌ It sounds like you are doing an awesome job for your kitty. Unfortunately, as we have seen (re:measles outbreak), an advanced degree that came with years of sacrifice and hard work is worth nothing next to the internets that will justify one's opinion on any given subject. Because clearly someone that has dedicated their life to promoting animal and/or human health is clearly only in it for ALL THE MONEYS and is therefore less trustworthy that a celebrity with an agenda.
  • People like to think that doing something once makes them experts. And then add the mommy competing to it and it's nuts.

    You sometimes see the same thing talking about what parents feed their children. Oh you don't nurse? You must be using that formula poison. Drinking COW'S MILK? Well there's just no hope.

  • Sorry you had to experience that! That is super frustrating that she would say those things to you! I was feeling ragey for you!  Ugh, so rude!!
  • Hang on, isn't Iams one of the brands that got recalled a few years ago because it was contaminated and was linked to pet deaths?

    And even if I'm confusing it with a different brand, I would have said that to her anyway. And before she could reply I would have said "eat THAT poison, bitch" and walked away.
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  • wrigleyvillewrigleyville member
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    edited February 2015
    Yeah, even though H dragged me away, I managed to say (loudly enough for her to hear), "Sweet. Grocery shopping AND a lecture. My day is complete!"

    You guys (plus the rum) have me feeling much better. Thanks. :) Just typing it out earlier helped quite a bit.

    The store was suuuuuuuuuper busy too. We're supposed to get 10-14 inches of snow, and the Super Bowl is tomorrow, so I was already pretty annoyed with the crowds. 

    On top of the snowstorm/Super Bowl madness, the store decided it would be a GREAT DAY to crowd every aisle with free sample tables. Oh my sweet baby jesus... I was ready to cut people.
  • What a bitch.  

    I'm pretty sure Iams is totally shit food.  The vet told her never to feed it to our animals, and it made our old cat sick, so we switched her to something else (she was a Siamese too).   That bitch sounded like she was just reciting the Iams commercial word for word.  


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  • beethery said:
    Shit like this makes me wish the grocery store delivered to my house.
    Some Publix groceries in metro areas will deliver if a person is otherwise unable to get to the store (ie, elderly, has a broken leg, etc). Move to the southeast and you might be able to get it!
    CMGragain said:
    You should have said, "Really?  From where did you get your veterinary degree?"
    Switch out veterinary to medical, and you've got my Dad's favorite comment when someone (normally my nurse Mom) tries telling him what might be causing the illness and the best remedy. 8 times out of 10, she's right and he's wrong, haha. He tried it on me once when I was 16 and not feeling well at a particular time of the month, until I finally had enough and yelled "I don't need a medical degree to know that I feel like shit on my period!!"  He shut up, got red, and left the room..


    OP, I had a similar situation, except it wasn't for pet food, it was people food. I was picking out some ice cream as a special treat for DH. (Caveat, I'm by no means skinny, and do have weight of my own to lose, but I'm trying, and this was for DH). Behind me I hear a SNIFF. 

    Turn around, and here's a woman at least twice my size eyeing my waist and the ice cream in my hand. She made some sort of comment about how the ice cream I had was bad for you, you should only get "all natural" ice cream, bla bla bla. Interesting to note, her cart was filled with about 4  one gallon tubs of ice cream, multiple bags of chips, several frozen pizzas, etc. This ice cream was the only "unhealthy" thing going into my cart. 

    Evil Chipmunk did come out at that point, and said something quite rude about a pot and a kettle and the amount of unnatural stuff in my ice cream was more than counterbalanced by the amount of sugar in all of her ice cream, along with a thought on where she could shove her 4 tubs of ice cream.
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