Hi all - so 2 of my friends got married last year, both of them did a whole weekend in Milwaukee w/all that comes along with a bachelorette party. I am not into all of the 'accessories' that come along with the weekend. I also only want a relaxed night in a cute downtown area that have a few restaurants & bars in it. A few of the girls in our group have already claimed that i am getting all of the 'accessories' for the weekend and it will not be calm. How do i approach them about this?