I am completely annoyed with one of my friends. My bridal
party let me know when my bachelorette party would be so I invite some other
ladies that are invited to the wedding if I wanted to. I sent out invites to a
few friends from my grad school class that were invited. However, one of these
ladies took it upon herself to invite others from my class to the bachelorette
party. She was fully aware that these several ladies were not invited to my
wedding. Her excuse when confronted, was “They are all okay with coming to the bachelorette party but not being invited to the wedding”. This was not here call to make. I did
not invite them to my bachelorette party for a reason. Now, I have ladies
informing me that they booked hotel rooms and are excited to come party. I feel
like I don’t know what to do about this. Unfortunately, I wasn't given enough time
between my friend inviting people and being able to inform them why I hadn't
invited them.(due to not wanting to invite people to pre-wedding parties without being invited to the wedding) Now, I don’t want to seem like a bitch for saying not to come.I feel like I'm at a loss. I’m
just frustrated and confused on why she did this.