The personal messages sent to them of any sort, and their relationships, are theirs. Not my fucking place to text their husbands and issue proclamations about how they should propose.
Messaging him was completely outside of any respectful boundaries of adult behavior.
I wouldn't do this to my own children.
(Which is why they feel comfortable confiding in me- because I respect adult boundaries, and behave respectfully to their chosen boyfriends/girlfriends. They trust me not to behave like an asshole and embarrass them when they share personal issues with me.)
I honestly was so shocked that you messaged him that I had to read twice to make sure you weren't being funny. Not exaggerating at all. I thought, this has to be a joke.
Out of line, disrespectful, intrusive, judgmental, and yes, absolutely 200% ridiculous.
OP - I think you need to apologize to sister's BF. Tell him you overstepped your bounds and you are sorry for interferring in their life the way you just did.
Before my sister got engaged, she was pressuring her bf for a ring. She even went so far as to ask me to talk to him or "reason with him," as she put it.
I refused to get involved in her relationship, even when asked, because it was none of my damn business. OP, it was none of your business and you seriously overstepped your bounds. From the sound of it, this guy could be around for a long time, and your meddling will not be good for your relationship with him or your sister if you keep it up.
Huh. Weird, cuz it makes me think of blowing two dudes at once. And gagging. A lot of gagging.
Makes me really happy I don't suck dick. No offense to those who do. You do you do.
That makes me think of something I read once: "The only good reason for offering a blowjob is as defense against the handjob, which is an act of sheer drudgery only slightly less boring than washing kitchen floors."
I am no way googling that to give credit to the author. Because I don't want to see the search results. But it still makes me laugh.
I don't see anything wrong with this type of proposal. Even through text, people are allowed to propose via text if they want. Whether or notyour sister wants this type of proposal is her business. It is not up to you to text her BF to tell him how to propose. It is our job to suggest your sister communicate to her BF how she would like to be proposed to and what kind of Vegas wedding she wants.
That makes me think of something I read once: "The only good reason for offering a blowjob is as defense against the handjob, which is an act of sheer drudgery only slightly less boring than washing kitchen floors."
I am no way googling that to give credit to the author. Because I don't want to see the search results. But it still makes me laugh.
That makes me think of something I read once: "The only good reason for offering a blowjob is as defense against the handjob, which is an act of sheer drudgery only slightly less boring than washing kitchen floors."
I am no way googling that to give credit to the author. Because I don't want to see the search results. But it still makes me laugh.
That makes me think of something I read once: "The only good reason for offering a blowjob is as defense against the handjob, which is an act of sheer drudgery only slightly less boring than washing kitchen floors."
I am no way googling that to give credit to the author. Because I don't want to see the search results. But it still makes me laugh.
Well, now I need to know, because I love it.
But, perhaps not when i'm at work.
It was somewhere in this book, published in 1976:
That book is a thing I need in my life. Like, yesterday.
My FH proposed by waking me up one morning and saying he had something cool to show me (the diamond he proposed with- Not a ring! GASP). I thought he was trying to mess around before work. I had bad bed head and eyeliner going down my face. I'm also not a morning person. I rolled over and told him to leave me alone. How romantic. He said he woke up that morning and said it just felt right to propose.
My FH proposed by waking me up one morning and saying he had something cool to show me (the diamond he proposed with- Not a ring! GASP). I thought he was trying to mess around before work. I had bad bed head and eyeliner going down my face. I'm also not a morning person. I rolled over and told him to leave me alone. How romantic. He said he woke up that morning and said it just felt right to propose.
So like... Do I get a do-over or no?
Holy crap, I'm so sorry I'm just tuning into this avalanche now.
Seriously? SERIOUSLY?! You messaged him?
I'd die on the spot if I were your sister. Like, spontaneously combust from embarrassment and anger. Just go up in a puff of smoke and leave a pile of ashes behind.
For the record, I also almost set myself on fire from embarrassment when my FI proposed in front of a bunch of people with a big elaborate plan. I wish times a thousand I would have gotten a text message instead, honestly.
Re: "Let's go to Vegas this weekend and get hitched"
We're now divorced.
Coincidence???????
I refused to get involved in her relationship, even when asked, because it was none of my damn business. OP, it was none of your business and you seriously overstepped your bounds. From the sound of it, this guy could be around for a long time, and your meddling will not be good for your relationship with him or your sister if you keep it up.
PPs were spot on. You are overreacting.
ETF wording
That's a good sig now!
"Love is the one thing we're capable of perceiving that transcends time and space."
You should not be messaging him about this. Absolutely none of your business. Stay out of it.
Haven't read any responses yet.
So like... Do I get a do-over or no?
I wouldnt be surprised if this caused a fight between op and sister too.