My fiance has a 3 year old son. We met with the officiant yesterday and he asked if we wanted him to mention or say anything about his son during the ceremony. I'm not that close with his son, so I personally don't want to say or mention him when I saw my vows. He's the ring barrier so he's involved in the wedding.
But do I mention him in my vows? If so, how or what would I say?
Or should I have the officiant mention him? If so, how would we incorporate him? f