My FMIL keeps inviting people that she has neither asked us if she could invite, nor we would want to invite. It is becoming very awkward for us. Some of them have already sent us gifts and I don't know how to handle this. We have told her that she needs to ask us about the people she would like to invite, but in the end it's our descsion. She continues to do this though. We are at our wits end!! It's not about having a small wedding, it's more about being surrounded by the people that know and support us the most and the people she's inviting just don't fit the bill. What else can we do?