I'm at my FFIL and FSMIL's house in Florida with my mom and FI until Tuesday. We came down to show my mom the retirement homes and spend some time with FI's family. His mom and stepdad live here too, so we want to spend time with everyone. I begged FI before we came if we could go swim with manatees as the one thing for me on this trip- the rest is for him and my mom. So he said ok and set up an outing with his mom and stepdad to go.
His step mom found out and shit has hit the fan.
She found out this morning (of course while FI was at the store) and proceeded to lecture me on how unfair it was and that she had planned to take us to Disney and dinner. I kept telling her how sorry I was and that FI had said he spoke to everyone about it, and we should hold the discussion until he came back.
Nope, she kept right on rolling, so I tried to compromise that we'd come home early and go to dinner.
"Well now maybe I don't want to "
For the fucking LOVE OF GOD. Whatever. I kept my mouth shut and continued trying to bean dip. She was done by the time FI came back, so I begged him to call his mom or talk to his step mom and fix it. When he called his mom (hours later) she started crying that he's picking step mom over her, and I felt hoooooorrible. He was on the phone with her over an hour.
While this is happening, I broke down crying because I felt like I caused a huge problem in his family with my god damn stupid manatees, and went to the room my mom's staying in because mommies fix everything.
His step mom came in and told me how this was my first test dealing with divorced parents and I failed it, called his mom a bitch, and said that Florida is her state not his moms.
What the ever loving actual fuck.
FI hasn't talked to her about it yet, hasn't defended me, and I'm stuck here until Tuesday.
I want to go home. I feel so bad for FI because he has to deal with this drama but I'm really angry- he lets his BSC sister be horrible to me (though she's not in our lives right now because they had other problems) and didn't do anything to fix this either.
Guys, please cheer me up. I never thought I'd want to get back to NY so badly in my life.
Apologies if this post is long and ranty and poorly edited. It's five am I haven't slept I'm amazingly upset and I'm posting from my phone.
