Hello! I am getting married in Maine (where I grew up) in August but have been living in DC for the last 10 + years. Most family is still in New England, but most friends are in DC or scattered all over the country. Looking at a potential bridal shower guest list and it's about split between the two locations. Any suggestions on what to do here? Perhaps have a family one in Maine (then I have to travel home) and a separate couples/friends one in DC? We are paying for our own wedding and I'll honestly do most of the legwork on my shower as I'm not one to ask for much from family and friends. Just looking for suggestions on what others have done in similar situations. Thank you!