Is it me or are the cultural boards a bit too specific?

loro929 · March 2015

The (new) Knot format has encouraged me to check out some of the other boards in the forum. However, when I came across the "cultural" boards, I was a bit disappointed to not find a board that would suit my own needs. I don't want to come off as an SS, but I mean just a specific board for any aspect of someone planning a wedding that involves the blending of two different cultures. Again, not that I think it is necessary for a board specific to my case, but rather it would be nice if there was a more general cultural board for people that might want to share ideas or their own personal situations that are related but don't fit necessarily into the very specific categories that are available.

Or maybe its early and I am wayyyy overthinking this.

Anyway, I know that the Chit Chat board is not a suggestion box, but I am here more often than other boards and thought to share this with all of you, and to see if anyone else has encountered this issue with the types of cultural boards available? Is there an option anywhere to propose the inclusion of a new board?

charlottesmom0626 · March 2015

I guess I'm a little confused. Did you post a cultural question and no one was able to answer you?

Not all topics have been discussed before. Open the convo and maybe someone else is in the same boat who hasn't asked yet either

photokitty · March 2015

People ask and answer blending culture questions on those boards ask the time. Just pick one of the cultures you are blending/ want to ask about and post on that board. You can always post on both cultural boards and put XP in the title.

If you don't get answers use the main wedding boards because just about everything falls into one of the regardless of culture. Ie ceremony, reception, wedding party, etc.

The regulars on those boards are helpful and active, despite the boards slow appearance.

GL!

loro929 · March 2015

Sorry if I wasn't clear. I haven't posted yet, but what through me off was that I don't pertain to any of the culture options that have boards. There are only very specific options that don't pertain to all cultures, obviously, which was why I was just wondering why there wasn't a board for general posting regarding multicultural topics.

ETA. @charlottesmom0626 I wanted to quote and reply to you but for some reason my phone won't let me. I'll update when I'm at a computer!

theartistformerlyknownas · March 2015

There are often questions like this on the Ceremonies board.

loro929 · March 2015

lolo883 said:
There are often questions like this on the Ceremonies board.

Yeah, you are right. @photokitty mentioned this too. I guess I need to spread my wings and start flying over to the other boards every once in a while.

Although, I will hold my ground that there should be more variety, or at least some generality in the cultural boards sections.

photokitty · March 2015

loro929 said:

lolo883 said:
There are often questions like this on the Ceremonies board.
Yeah, you are right. @photokitty mentioned this too. I guess I need to spread my wings and start flying over to the other boards every once in a while.

Although, I will hold my ground that there should be more variety, or at least some generality in the cultural boards sections.

I'm confused. What culture is not represented that you are want to post about?
Making them more general defeats the purpose. Honestly, I feel they are more "religion" than cultural, for the most part.

You asking for them being more general is exactly what the general wedding boards are ~ ceremony, reception, wedding party, etc.

You answered your own question ~ you are way over thinking it.

Maggie0829 · March 2015

loro929 said:

lolo883 said:
There are often questions like this on the Ceremonies board.
Yeah, you are right. @photokitty mentioned this too. I guess I need to spread my wings and start flying over to the other boards every once in a while.

Although, I will hold my ground that there should be more variety, or at least some generality in the cultural boards sections.

But what variety? To me saying you want more variety but more generality is just down right confusing. If you feel that a certain culture is not being covered then you need to be a bit more detailed into what you actually want. You are being very broad/general in your comments so it is really hard to figure out exactly what you want.

theartistformerlyknownas · March 2015

photokitty said:

loro929 said:

lolo883 said:
There are often questions like this on the Ceremonies board.
Yeah, you are right. @photokitty mentioned this too. I guess I need to spread my wings and start flying over to the other boards every once in a while.

Although, I will hold my ground that there should be more variety, or at least some generality in the cultural boards sections.
I'm confused. What culture is not represented that you are want to post about?
Making them more general defeats the purpose. Honestly, I feel they are more "religion" than cultural, for the most part.

You asking for them being more general is exactly what the general wedding boards are ~ ceremony, reception, wedding party, etc.

You answered your own question ~ you are way over thinking it.

Exactly. Is combining cultures a big/common thing? Absolutely. Which is why it's general enough for inclusion in the general boards.

The more boards there, are the less TV traffic they'll likely each get. You're better off keeping this general to get more answers.

loro929 · March 2015

Maggie0829 said:

loro929 said:

lolo883 said:
There are often questions like this on the Ceremonies board.
Yeah, you are right. @photokitty mentioned this too. I guess I need to spread my wings and start flying over to the other boards every once in a while.

Although, I will hold my ground that there should be more variety, or at least some generality in the cultural boards sections.
But what variety? To me saying you want more variety but more generality is just down right confusing. If you feel that a certain culture is not being covered then you need to be a bit more detailed into what you actually want. You are being very broad/general in your comments so it is really hard to figure out exactly what you want.

Specifically, I was looking for a place to discuss how to organize both the wedding and following reception with two families that speak completely different languages, not necessarily just the ceremony. Some languages are more common than others in regards to finding vendors, information, etc. (i.e. if I was talking about Spanish or Arabic, I would know where to look exactly, especially because these languages are quite commonly spoken in the state/area where I am from). But I am talking about less common languages/situations, which is why I just commented that it would be nice if there was a space to be able to find people in similar situations to discuss some of the issues/situations that arise that may not come up with other cultures/languages/religions, etc.

However, point taken, I understand the need to not have such niche groups to foster community and conversation over the more trafficked boards.

ETA. At this point, I don't have much more planning to do, so I am starting to overthink these little issues, which was one of the main reasons that I made the observation re. culture boards in the OP.

OliveOilsMom · March 2015

There was an Interfaith board. While it may not specifically apply to the wedding of two different cultures, I'm sure that could be a good board to start with. Or did the Interfaith board disappear with the format change?

larrygaga · March 2015

I don't see how the commonality of the languages matter? Seat people with who they would actually sit with if they were picking their own seats. I'm assuming that you two have a main language so base everything off that. Music can be enjoyed no matter what language it's in. If you can find a DJ or announcer that speaks languages to translate announcements, cool. I'm not really sure what else you need for that at a wedding. The Knot can't possibly cover everything, so they covered common western subjects. Then they gave us a lot of general discussion boards for the stuff they didn't cover.

Maybe I'm crabby but this just comes off as an AW post. If you have a specific question use www.google.com or ask us, I'm sure we could help you figure it out.

Maggie0829 · March 2015

larrygaga said:
I don't see how the commonality of the languages matter? Seat people with who they would actually sit with if they were picking their own seats. I'm assuming that you two have a main language so base everything off that. Music can be enjoyed no matter what language it's in. If you can find a DJ or announcer that speaks languages to translate announcements, cool. I'm not really sure what else you need for that at a wedding. The Knot can't possibly cover everything, so they covered common western subjects. Then they gave us a lot of general discussion boards for the stuff they didn't cover.

Maybe I'm crabby but this just comes off as an AW post. If you have a specific question use www.google.com or ask us, I'm sure we could help you figure it out.

This.

I get trying to coordinate a ceremony when both families speak two different languages can be difficult, since you would like everyone to understand what is being said and done. But I am confused why the reception would be difficult to plan.

I think you are making this more complicated and difficult then it really needs to be.

novella1186 · March 2015

So does each side ONLY speak their one specific language, or is there a common language? Is it like people on your side only speak and understand Polish but people on his side only speak and understand Swahili? Or do they also all speak English (or at least some English)? Is it a necessity to find translators and whatnot?

loro929 · March 2015

I don't see how the commonality of the languages matter? Seat people with who they would actually sit with if they were picking their own seats. I'm assuming that you two have a main language so base everything off that. Music can be enjoyed no matter what language it's in. If you can find a DJ or announcer that speaks languages to translate announcements, cool. I'm not really sure what else you need for that at a wedding. The Knot can't possibly cover everything, so they covered common western subjects. Then they gave us a lot of general discussion boards for the stuff they didn't cover.

Maybe I'm crabby but this just comes off as an AW post. If you have a specific question usewww.google.com or ask us, I'm sure we could help you figure it out.

I don't really understand how you can say that the commonality of the languages doesn't matter? Souldn't both families get to enjoy (and understand) the wedding and of their children?

I guess that you are not used to dealing with people who speak different languages, and the challenges it can propose.

novella1186 said:
So does each side ONLY speak their one specific language, or is there a common language? Is it like people on your side only speak and understand Polish but people on his side only speak and understand Swahili? Or do they also all speak English (or at least some English)? Is it a necessity to find translators and whatnot?

There is no common language. Each side speaks their own language, so there are some things, more so than just the ceremony that need to be taken into consideration. I don't really think we will be needing translators, but rather will try to at least say the vows in both languages. I was really just curious what people do for everything else: re. menus, stationary, speeches, etc.

This is why I was just looking for a place to discuss this, I didn't know where it would have been appropriate as I didn't find anything on the culture board. Yet, the suggestions by PPs were helpful. I did not mean for it to be an AW post, but whatever, potato, potahto.

emmaaa · March 2015

loro929 said:
I don't see how the commonality of the languages matter? Seat people with who they would actually sit with if they were picking their own seats. I'm assuming that you two have a main language so base everything off that. Music can be enjoyed no matter what language it's in. If you can find a DJ or announcer that speaks languages to translate announcements, cool. I'm not really sure what else you need for that at a wedding. The Knot can't possibly cover everything, so they covered common western subjects. Then they gave us a lot of general discussion boards for the stuff they didn't cover.

Maybe I'm crabby but this just comes off as an AW post. If you have a specific question usewww.google.com or ask us, I'm sure we could help you figure it out.

I don't really understand how you can say that the commonality of the languages doesn't matter? Souldn't both families get to enjoy (and understand) the wedding and of their children?

I guess that you are not used to dealing with people who speak different languages, and the challenges it can propose.

novella1186 said:
So does each side ONLY speak their one specific language, or is there a common language? Is it like people on your side only speak and understand Polish but people on his side only speak and understand Swahili? Or do they also all speak English (or at least some English)? Is it a necessity to find translators and whatnot?

There is no common language. Each side speaks their own language, so there are some things, more so than just the ceremony that need to be taken into consideration. I don't really think we will be needing translators, but rather will try to at least say the vows in both languages. I was really just curious what people do for everything else: re. menus, stationary, speeches, etc.

This is why I was just looking for a place to discuss this, I didn't know where it would have been appropriate as I didn't find anything on the culture board. Yet, the suggestions by PPs were helpful. I did not mean for it to be an AW post, but whatever, potato, potahto.

I think if you had posted your actual question here and been specific about which language barriers you will be facing, you could have gotten a lot more help.

novella1186 · March 2015

loro929 said:
I don't see how the commonality of the languages matter? Seat people with who they would actually sit with if they were picking their own seats. I'm assuming that you two have a main language so base everything off that. Music can be enjoyed no matter what language it's in. If you can find a DJ or announcer that speaks languages to translate announcements, cool. I'm not really sure what else you need for that at a wedding. The Knot can't possibly cover everything, so they covered common western subjects. Then they gave us a lot of general discussion boards for the stuff they didn't cover.

Maybe I'm crabby but this just comes off as an AW post. If you have a specific question usewww.google.com or ask us, I'm sure we could help you figure it out.

I don't really understand how you can say that the commonality of the languages doesn't matter? Souldn't both families get to enjoy (and understand) the wedding and of their children?

I guess that you are not used to dealing with people who speak different languages, and the challenges it can propose.

So does each side ONLY speak their one specific language, or is there a common language? Is it like people on your side only speak and understand Polish but people on his side only speak and understand Swahili? Or do they also all speak English (or at least some English)? Is it a necessity to find translators and whatnot?

There is no common language. Each side speaks their own language, so there are some things, more so than just the ceremony that need to be taken into consideration. I don't really think we will be needing translators, but rather will try to at least say the vows in both languages. I was really just curious what people do for everything else: re. menus, stationary, speeches, etc.

This is why I was just looking for a place to discuss this, I didn't know where it would have been appropriate as I didn't find anything on the culture board. Yet, the suggestions by PPs were helpful. I did not mean for it to be an AW post, but whatever, potato, potahto.

I'm one of those people who think menus are totally unnecessary, so I would just skip them. But if it's something you want, have them printed in both languages. Have someone from each side proof-read it for grammatical errors and whatnot.

Same with stationary if the guests literally will not even be able to read it unless it's in their language. Order two sets; one in each language. Because if an invitation came to me in Portuguese and I don't understand that language at all, what the hell am I supposed to do with that?

For speeches/toasts, I'd have 1 person from each side speak. Someone special to your FI can speak in that side's language, and then someone special to you can say what they want to say and speak in your side's language.

I've been to multi-lingual events where not every single thing was translated and I still enjoyed it. You can easily pick up from context, the speaker's facial expression and mannerisms, and the crowd's reaction what's going on. The emotions, good vibes, and enjoyment are still there, even if I don't get every word.

loro929 · March 2015

emmaaa said:
I don't see how the commonality of the languages matter? Seat people with who they would actually sit with if they were picking their own seats. I'm assuming that you two have a main language so base everything off that. Music can be enjoyed no matter what language it's in. If you can find a DJ or announcer that speaks languages to translate announcements, cool. I'm not really sure what else you need for that at a wedding. The Knot can't possibly cover everything, so they covered common western subjects. Then they gave us a lot of general discussion boards for the stuff they didn't cover.

Maybe I'm crabby but this just comes off as an AW post. If you have a specific question usewww.google.com or ask us, I'm sure we could help you figure it out.

I don't really understand how you can say that the commonality of the languages doesn't matter? Souldn't both families get to enjoy (and understand) the wedding and of their children?

I guess that you are not used to dealing with people who speak different languages, and the challenges it can propose.

novella1186 said:
So does each side ONLY speak their one specific language, or is there a common language? Is it like people on your side only speak and understand Polish but people on his side only speak and understand Swahili? Or do they also all speak English (or at least some English)? Is it a necessity to find translators and whatnot?

There is no common language. Each side speaks their own language, so there are some things, more so than just the ceremony that need to be taken into consideration. I don't really think we will be needing translators, but rather will try to at least say the vows in both languages. I was really just curious what people do for everything else: re. menus, stationary, speeches, etc.

This is why I was just looking for a place to discuss this, I didn't know where it would have been appropriate as I didn't find anything on the culture board. Yet, the suggestions by PPs were helpful. I did not mean for it to be an AW post, but whatever, potato, potahto.

I think if you had posted your actual question here and been specific about which language barriers you will be facing, you could have gotten a lot more help.

I agree. But, at this point I did not have a specific question, rather I was making an observation regarding the available culture boards to see what others' experience was with them.

PPs have already pointed out what boards would be most appropriate for these types of topics (most specifically Ceremonies and traditions). I wasn't aware that was the best place for this type of question, I originally thought it would be the culture boards, which is why I went there first to see what types of topics they deal with.

emmaaa · March 2015

loro929 · March 2015

novella1186 said:

loro929 said:
I don't see how the commonality of the languages matter? Seat people with who they would actually sit with if they were picking their own seats. I'm assuming that you two have a main language so base everything off that. Music can be enjoyed no matter what language it's in. If you can find a DJ or announcer that speaks languages to translate announcements, cool. I'm not really sure what else you need for that at a wedding. The Knot can't possibly cover everything, so they covered common western subjects. Then they gave us a lot of general discussion boards for the stuff they didn't cover.

Maybe I'm crabby but this just comes off as an AW post. If you have a specific question usewww.google.com or ask us, I'm sure we could help you figure it out.

I don't really understand how you can say that the commonality of the languages doesn't matter? Souldn't both families get to enjoy (and understand) the wedding and of their children?
I guess that you are not used to dealing with people who speak different languages, and the challenges it can propose.

So does each side ONLY speak their one specific language, or is there a common language? Is it like people on your side only speak and understand Polish but people on his side only speak and understand Swahili? Or do they also all speak English (or at least some English)? Is it a necessity to find translators and whatnot?

There is no common language. Each side speaks their own language, so there are some things, more so than just the ceremony that need to be taken into consideration. I don't really think we will be needing translators, but rather will try to at least say the vows in both languages. I was really just curious what people do for everything else: re. menus, stationary, speeches, etc.

This is why I was just looking for a place to discuss this, I didn't know where it would have been appropriate as I didn't find anything on the culture board. Yet, the suggestions by PPs were helpful. I did not mean for it to be an AW post, but whatever, potato, potahto.

I'm one of those people who think menus are totally unnecessary, so I would just skip them. But if it's something you want, have them printed in both languages. Have someone from each side proof-read it for grammatical errors and whatnot.

Same with stationary if the guests literally will not even be able to read it unless it's in their language. Order two sets; one in each language. Because if an invitation came to me in Portuguese and I don't understand that language at all, what the hell am I supposed to do with that?

For speeches/toasts, I'd have 1 person from each side speak. Someone special to your FI can speak in that side's language, and then someone special to you can say what they want to say and speak in your side's language.

I've been to multi-lingual events where not every single thing was translated and I still enjoyed it. You can easily pick up from context, the speaker's facial expression and mannerisms, and the crowd's reaction what's going on. The emotions, good vibes, and enjoyment are still there, even if I don't get every word.

Thanks so much for your insight! Soon we have to start to organize specifics with the venue, and are trying to have a clear head on what we need to order and what not, you're ideas definitely provide a nice starting point

manateehugger · March 2015

I mean you can ask a question anywhere. People generally try to answer and if they think it best belongs somewhere else, they say so (you see "try posting this on XX board" all the time around here). There's also mods who have the ability to move a post.

I don't understand your issue. I view the cultural boards as good places to ask questions about specific kinds (or religious) of ceremonies. Most posters over here would not be much help with how to form the timeline of a Hindu wedding, for example.

Anyone can help with a general logistics question, however. You're making this hard and weird.

loro929 · March 2015

emmaaa said:

No need to be confused. If you read my OP, I was making an observation regarding the culture boards. Some PPs asked what types of topics I was referring to specifically, I mentioned them. At the moment they are really just some general things that I was considering when looking around the boards for a place that I would be able to post them.

loro929 · March 2015

manateehugger said:
I mean you can ask a question anywhere. People generally try to answer and if they think it best belongs somewhere else, they say so (you see "try posting this on XX board" all the time around here). There's also mods who have the ability to move a post.
I don't understand your issue. I view the cultural boards as good places to ask questions about specific kinds (or religious) of ceremonies. Most posters over here would not be much help with how to form the timeline of a Hindu wedding, for example.
Anyone can help with a general logistics question, however. You're making this hard and weird.

I am sorry but I really don't understand how asking a question regarding the types of cultural boards available is making things hard and weird. I asked a question, don't they say in school "there is no such thing as stupid questions"?

I already responded, several times, agreeing with PPs and their suggestions for certain boards. So, I am a little unsure where your comment is coming from...

photokitty · March 2015

loro929 said:

Maggie0829 said:

loro929 said:

lolo883 said:
There are often questions like this on the Ceremonies board.
Yeah, you are right. @photokitty mentioned this too. I guess I need to spread my wings and start flying over to the other boards every once in a while.

Although, I will hold my ground that there should be more variety, or at least some generality in the cultural boards sections.
But what variety? To me saying you want more variety but more generality is just down right confusing. If you feel that a certain culture is not being covered then you need to be a bit more detailed into what you actually want. You are being very broad/general in your comments so it is really hard to figure out exactly what you want.
Specifically, I was looking for a place to discuss how to organize both the wedding and following reception with two families that speak completely different languages, not necessarily just the ceremony. Some languages are more common than others in regards to finding vendors, information, etc. (i.e. if I was talking about Spanish or Arabic, I would know where to look exactly, especially because these languages are quite commonly spoken in the state/area where I am from). But I am talking about less common languages/situations, which is why I just commented that it would be nice if there was a space to be able to find people in similar situations to discuss some of the issues/situations that arise that may not come up with other cultures/languages/religions, etc.

However, point taken, I understand the need to not have such niche groups to foster community and conversation over the more trafficked boards.

ETA. At this point, I don't have much more planning to do, so I am starting to overthink these little issues, which was one of the main reasons that I made the observation re. culture boards in the OP.

Personally, I think that topic would be well suited to the etiquette board - you are trying to commodity and increase the comfort of your guests.

Or as I said previously XP on the "Muslim" and the "Latino" based on your example of Arabic and Spanish.

In terms on the vendor questions, that's for your local board, a cultural board that is used by posters worldwide. Depending on how active your local board is YMMV on your success.

larrygaga · March 2015

I don't see how the commonality of the languages matter? Seat people with who they would actually sit with if they were picking their own seats. I'm assuming that you two have a main language so base everything off that. Music can be enjoyed no matter what language it's in. If you can find a DJ or announcer that speaks languages to translate announcements, cool. I'm not really sure what else you need for that at a wedding. The Knot can't possibly cover everything, so they covered common western subjects. Then they gave us a lot of general discussion boards for the stuff they didn't cover.

Maybe I'm crabby but this just comes off as an AW post. If you have a specific question usewww.google.com or ask us, I'm sure we could help you figure it out.

I don't really understand how you can say that the commonality of the languages doesn't matter? Souldn't both families get to enjoy (and understand) the wedding and of their children?
I guess that you are not used to dealing with people who speak different languages, and the challenges it can propose.

So does each side ONLY speak their one specific language, or is there a common language? Is it like people on your side only speak and understand Polish but people on his side only speak and understand Swahili? Or do they also all speak English (or at least some English)? Is it a necessity to find translators and whatnot?
There is no common language. Each side speaks their own language, so there are some things, more so than just the ceremony that need to be taken into consideration. I don't really think we will be needing translators, but rather will try to at least say the vows in both languages. I was really just curious what people do for everything else: re. menus, stationary, speeches, etc.

This is why I was just looking for a place to discuss this, I didn't know where it would have been appropriate as I didn't find anything on the culture board. Yet, the suggestions by PPs were helpful. I did not mean for it to be an AW post, but whatever, potato, potahto.

Yeah I guess I wouldn't know being that a third of my family is coming down from Quebec and FI's family is coming over from the reservation.

What I'm saying, again, is that you aren't as special and unique and different as you think you are.

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=Wedding+planning+with+two+languages

emmaaa · March 2015

loro929 said:

emmaaa said:
No need to be confused. If you read my OP, I was making an observation regarding the culture boards. Some PPs asked what types of topics I was referring to specifically, I mentioned them. At the moment they are really just some general things that I was considering when looking around the boards for a place that I would be able to post them.

No, I've read it and all of the following posts. I understand what your saying but I don't necessarily get the point. It's just weird. No harm, no foul.

loro929 · March 2015

larrygaga said:
I don't see how the commonality of the languages matter? Seat people with who they would actually sit with if they were picking their own seats. I'm assuming that you two have a main language so base everything off that. Music can be enjoyed no matter what language it's in. If you can find a DJ or announcer that speaks languages to translate announcements, cool. I'm not really sure what else you need for that at a wedding. The Knot can't possibly cover everything, so they covered common western subjects. Then they gave us a lot of general discussion boards for the stuff they didn't cover.

Maybe I'm crabby but this just comes off as an AW post. If you have a specific question usewww.google.com or ask us, I'm sure we could help you figure it out.

I don't really understand how you can say that the commonality of the languages doesn't matter? Souldn't both families get to enjoy (and understand) the wedding and of their children?

I guess that you are not used to dealing with people who speak different languages, and the challenges it can propose.

So does each side ONLY speak their one specific language, or is there a common language? Is it like people on your side only speak and understand Polish but people on his side only speak and understand Swahili? Or do they also all speak English (or at least some English)? Is it a necessity to find translators and whatnot?

There is no common language. Each side speaks their own language, so there are some things, more so than just the ceremony that need to be taken into consideration. I don't really think we will be needing translators, but rather will try to at least say the vows in both languages. I was really just curious what people do for everything else: re. menus, stationary, speeches, etc.

This is why I was just looking for a place to discuss this, I didn't know where it would have been appropriate as I didn't find anything on the culture board. Yet, the suggestions by PPs were helpful. I did not mean for it to be an AW post, but whatever, potato, potahto.

Yeah I guess I wouldn't know being that a third of my family is coming down from Quebec and FI's family is coming over from the reservation.

What I'm saying, again, is that you aren't as special and unique and different as you think you are.

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=Wedding+planning+with+two+languages

JFC with the SS comments. Where in any post did I say anything in regards to the bolded statement? I specifically said I wasn't looking for something specific, just a general guidance on where to go. If you are crabby today, why take it out on other people?

larrygaga · March 2015

I calls um like I sees um

loro929 · March 2015

larrygaga said:
I calls um like I sees um

Huh?

manateehugger · March 2015

manateehugger said:

loro929 said:

manateehugger said:
I mean you can ask a question anywhere. People generally try to answer and if they think it best belongs somewhere else, they say so (you see "try posting this on XX board" all the time around here). There's also mods who have the ability to move a post.
I don't understand your issue. I view the cultural boards as good places to ask questions about specific kinds (or religious) of ceremonies. Most posters over here would not be much help with how to form the timeline of a Hindu wedding, for example.
Anyone can help with a general logistics question, however. You're making this hard and weird.
I am sorry but I really don't understand how asking a question regarding the types of cultural boards available is making things hard and weird. I asked a question, don't they say in school "there is no such thing as stupid questions"?

I already responded, several times, agreeing with PPs and their suggestions for certain boards. So, I am a little unsure where your comment is coming from...

Oh geeze, relax dude. I'm saying that if one of the cultural boards doesn't apply, don't post there. If one does apply, post there and maybe XP here if you want more responses and ideas.

I didn't remotely suggest your questions was a stupid one, though I generally firmly disagree with the notion that there are no stupid questions. I'm saying you're making this weird because you're making it wayyyy harder than it has to be. You could have posted your questions here, and then maybe someone who have suggested , "try XPing on the Interfaith Ceremonies Board." That's my point. I don't get why you just didn't post your question and XP it somewhere instead of going down this windy road about the Cultural Boards.

The majority of my family lives in India. My cousins will often have programs and other materials printed in two languages. I agree with Novella's suggestions. It's not too difficult.

photokitty · March 2015

FWIW, I never saw you as being AW or SS, just asking a question that you thought could improve the community and asking for others input.

I think we had adequately convinced you that there isn't a need for a specific board on this topic and you just have to think about what is the root of the question.

It sounds like you were looking more for someone going through the same thing that you could connect with, and in that case you can always start a thread in CC asking is anyone going through a situation similar to mine? Can we chat on PM?

To recap -

~If you have a local vendor question - regardless of question, language or otherwise - consult your local board.

~Blending of religions and/or cultures - feel free to XP on the 2 boards in the "Cultural Weddings" boards

~How to best accommodate your guests - the E Board

~Most other topics have their own board, wedding parties are still wedding parties regardless of the nationality. Ceremonies are still ceremonies regard of the religion or lack there of religion.

GL! And Best Wishes

Is it me or are the cultural boards a bit too specific?

Re: Is it me or are the cultural boards a bit too specific?

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