First off I am planning on getting all of my BM something small and more personal as their official gift. I want to also help them financially because several of them are young and have just started their first jobs out of college. I am torn between paying for part of their dresses or paying for hair and makeup. I know the dresses are definitely more important to have but I also thought paying for hair and makeup would mean that everyone could feel pampered on the day of the wedding and my younger maids would not feel left out if they could not afford it. As a BM which would you prefer?