Dear Prudence,
I’m a 33-year-old woman, the eldest of four kids from a tight knit, Christian family. My dad has always been a dedicated family man, but through a friend of mine who works with him I learned that he has been known to go to strip clubs during his travels. I didn’t think much of those outings my friend described until I borrowed my dad’s phone to Google something and saw in the search history the phrase “Can you get a disease by licking a woman’s nipples?” I don’t know if it was related to those strip club trips, but in any case, I doubt it was a typo. I want to give my dad the benefit of the doubt, but I feel owe it to my mother, and as a wife and mother myself, to discuss this with my dad. He’s coming to visit, and I want to bring it up, but how do I discuss something so awkward?