My FI's aunts are graciously throwing me a shower in a few weeks. They send out invites maybe two weeks ago based on a list I gave them. It was mostly just family/bridesmaids. I mentioned to the BMs a while back that they were going to receive it, but no pressure to come because I'm already having another shower in the town we live in and this shower is about an hour and half away in our hometown.
I hadn't heard anything from any of the BMs except my MOH, who said she can't make it. I thought it was kind of strange that they didn't bring it up so I asked if they received it. (Again, I didn't expect them to come, but I figure they would mention receiving it you know?)
Anyway, I asked one and she said no, she didn't get it. So I asked two more and same thing.
I'm assume that some of the invites got lost in the mail. I'm not sure what to do here. I don't want to go around asking everyone because that seems like not place. I know I shouldn't be involved. But I also I don't want them to think my friends are rude for not replying. And I hate that they didn't even get the invite. I mean none of the three can come, which is fine and what I assumed.
Should I say something to his aunts or just leave it alone? I kind of lean towards leaving it alone. I don't want to be rude or make them feel bad.