What my fiancé and I are facing is that our church for our ceremony is very very large. 400 people looks less than half full. While the reception space we decided on holds around 100 people maybe a few more. We are having trouble with this and wondered if it would be rude to invite people to the ceremony and have a small reception. One option we thought of was that we could have an informal party a few months later for those that weren't able to attend the reception. Opinions please?