My MOH and Bridesmaids are planning my bachelorette party and I'm not supposed to know anything about what we're doing, although one of my maids slipped up so I have some idea of what's going on now. I'm concerned that my MOH is being too elaborate and spending too much money on it. I have one friend who has decided not to go because of the cost, and I'm frustrated because I said that I would be perfectly happy with a low-key party, but feel that it's now gotten out of hand. My MOH has repeatedly said that it's under control and they're making different ways to make it affordable to people but I'm now at the point where I'm anxious and feeling guilty about it and I'm not sure what to do...