Wedding Woes

what should he do?

I have been in love for the last year and recently proposed. After 10 years of bisexuality (though I had more female partners than male) I was happy, excited and in love. She introduced me to her parents three months ago and her father and I recognised each other from a local cruising site. 

We have been intimate on about three or four occasions. He has made contact with me and asked me to tell my fiancée about my sexuality. I asked if his wife knew about his, and we have reached something of an impasse. He has since taken screenshots of old photos of me and I have also found some of him. 

Shall I just walk away from the woman of my dreams?
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Re: what should he do?

  • his Fi doesn't know that he identifies as bisexual?

    having had sexual contact with the dad, aside, the fact that they haven't even had a basic discussion about their sexual history/preferences is a huge red flag. 


  • *Barbie* said:


    having had sexual contact with the dad, aside, the fact that they haven't even had a basic discussion about their sexual history/preferences is a huge red flag. 



    This.  And if the dad thinks having sex with men is so shameful, then I would love
    to hear how he's going to explain how he knows about the FI's sexual
    past.
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