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MOH... VENT!!
So my MOH and I have been friends since we were 11 or 12 years old. Lost contact and found each other on FB! Alright so my wedding is approaching FAST and I'm in the process of getting things done but she HASN'T help one bit. Mind you she lives down the street from us.
So the other BM asked me if we were all staying in a hotel room the night before the wedding. I was like yeah, sounds good. I tell her and she immediately goes into how she's not gonna be able to do that because she won't have anyone to feed her cats. OKAY FINE!!
Last week she tells me that SATURDAY (9th) she was gonna come over so we can get some detail stuff done. FI and I had worked on stuff all day when it dawned on me that I hadn't heard from her. I text her asking when she was gonna come over and her reply was.... "I'm in Cali!!" Uhhhhh say what. Okay so when was you gonna tell me to cancel for Saturday and who is uh feeding the cats!!
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[QUOTE]So my MOH and I have been friends since we were 11 or 12 years old. Lost contact and found each other on FB! Alright so my wedding is approaching FAST and I'm in the process of getting things done but she HASN'T help one bit. Mind you she lives down the street from us. So the other BM asked me if we were all staying in a hotel room the night before the wedding. I was like yeah, sounds good. I tell her and she immediately goes into how <strong><u>she's not gonna be able to do that because she won't have anyone to feed her cats.</u></strong> OKAY FINE!! Last week she tells me that SATURDAY (9th) she was gonna come over so we can get some detail stuff done. FI and I had worked on stuff all day when it dawned on me that I hadn't heard from her. I text her asking when she was gonna come over and her reply was.... "I'm in Cali!!" Uhhhhh say what. Okay so when was you gonna tell me to cancel for Saturday and who is uh feeding the cats!!
Posted by FutureMzHayden[/QUOTE]
OMG! that's the exact reason i'm bringing my cat to 20pearls wedding! LMAO!
Seriously though. Is she always that flakey? and was the trip last minute or what?
[QUOTE]In Response to MOH... VENT!! : OMG! that's the exact reason i'm bringing my cat to 20pearls wedding! LMAO!
Posted by footballwife77[/QUOTE]
<div>The devil is a LIAR LMAO!!!</div>
she (your MOH) doesn't want the responsibility. I would try to downsize her to a BM and put someone else in her place. She might not know the full responsibility that goes with being the MOH.
Seriously, though with the cats...MAJOR side-eye action on deck...lol (and this is from the mouth of a cat-owner!!! them cats will be fine for a day or so on thier own)....
[QUOTE]...this is why I have only ONE bridesmaid at my wedding.....
Posted by staten2012[/QUOTE]
<div>I don't have ANY for this same reason.</div>
Ok first off...don't they have automatic cat feeders?????? I think so...
Next....I am losing brain cells reading about everyone and their haters...sheesh
Third it sucks that people that we consider our friends we can't even be happy for their friends when something significant happens in other peopl'e lives....damn crab in a bucket mentality....ugh
I think she sounds kind of iffy to me...I dont know her and dont want to judge her but I said the same thing you said when she said she was in Cali...who is feeiding the damn cat now?
Girl good luck with that one and I hope that she either steps up or you downgrade her....
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