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No takesies backsies?

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Re: No takesies backsies?

  • larrygaga said:

    CMGragain said:

    My Mom was NPD.  My wedding was all about her.  I knew it would be.  I put up with it  because I knew that after the wedding, I would be free and living 1100 miles away from her.
    I agree with the others.  Give back the money and walk away.
    Mom died a year ago.  I wondered what I would feel.  I was by her bedside while she told all the nurses how much she loved them.  They all cried.  Not one word for me.  No surprise.  Yet I was the one who was there for her at the end.  I still have a lot of anger about all the lies she told.  She would have loved her funeral.  She looked beautiful.  That was what mattered to her.

    You could start your own thread about you!
    CMG has talked about her narcissistic mother before, it's not new information. It's obvious you don't like her, but at least this post is relevant to to the thread.


    OP, you asked for advice. People are telling you to give back the money. I think that's the wisest choice. You don't have to, of course, and you can do whatever you want with that money, because it's technically yours now, not your mother's. 

    PP are just saying you will be the better person by giving it back. She can't say she paid for this or did that. It seems that you're in a lose lose situation, so if you want to keep it, keep it. But then why did you ask for advice?
    Give the money and if needed cut ties with her. It seems like she wants to use the money as leverage against you. 

    Live fast, die young. Bad Girls do it well. Suki Zuki.

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