So, I really want to get a dog. But I'm not sure where to start. Here are the basics:
1. We have an (extremely friendly) cat, so our first priority is making sure above all else that we do not get a dog that could potentially hurt her. I know that within every breed there are some individuals who are friendly and some who aren't, but I also believe that some breeds do have a baseline higher prey-drive and therefore would not be a good fit for us. I've heard horror stories of huskies/shepherds etc. who are raised with cats, got along with them their entire lives, and then one day just got too riled up and killed them... so that is like my worst nightmare.
2. I would like a puppy if possible... because they are cute and snuggly and you have more influence on their training. I feel sort of like a terrible person for not being more open to adopting an older dog when there are so many in need, but... I kind of really want a puppy.
3. My H and I both like large dogs- no small dogs for us. The smallest dog I've ever owned was about 45 pounds and I wouldn't want anything smaller than that (and would prefer a larger dog in general).
4. I really want to rescue if possible because I feel like that's the right thing to do, though I will definitely consider going through a breeder if that's what ultimately makes more sense for our family.
So that's what we're looking for, but I'm getting increasingly concerned that it isn't possible to find a dog that meets all those criteria and I don't really know where to look anymore. Over the past six months or so I've been keeping an eye on all the local shelters and it seems like 1) the almost never have puppies and 2) 90% of the dogs they have are some sort of pit bull mix, which would make me nervous around the cat (no need to tell me you have a pit bull who just LOVES your cat because I definitely do know that can happen... it just feels like a risk to me). Then there's the fact that a lot of shelter dogs are "mutts" with all kinds of unknown heritage, so I just feel like I could be getting an "aggressive" breed of dog without even knowing it. There are relatively few breeds of large dogs that are considered completely "safe" around cats- golden retrievers and labs come to mind the most- but those dogs are very rarely left at shelters (I just don't think I'm ever going to get lucky and walk into a humane society with an adorable golden retriever puppy for adoption, lol).
So what do I do? Am I making too much of the specific breed of the dog we will be getting, and trust that temperament will always win out over instinct? Do I need to just put aside my guilt and start looking at dogs from breeders in order to ensure getting a dog that can live harmoniously with our cat? Is there somewhere I should be looking that I'm not? Help me Knotties!
Re: Need Advice About Getting A Dog
That's a really good point, it'd probably help a lot to get in the system before there's actually a dog we want so we can move quickly if the right pup comes along... how did you come across a puppy that was in a shelter so far away from your state though? I have only been looking at in-state shelters and rescues because I assumed transport wouldn't be feasible.
Oh, and guess what? It has never been proven that the bite strength of a pit bull is any greater that that of a similar-sized dog.
Aggressive dogs get that way by their owners. Were certain breeds of dog bred for some specific purpose? Yes. I will grant you that. Chihuahuas were bred for a specific type of hunting - I think rats. All dogs came about for some purpose. Goldens and labs are hunting dogs.
Get that out of your mind and focus on temperament and history. Breeding does not a killer make. Training does. Caring to ensure your dog is not vicious will make certain it never is.
It sounds more like you're trying to justify going to a breeder to me, honestly. Which is fine. I have a dog from a breeder. I didn't buy her, she was going to the shelter if I didn't adopt her. But a reputable breeder - even a golden breeder - will tell you that poor training will get you an aggressive dog no matter how well-bred the dog is.
I'm sorry but I've known too many families who have had bad things happen with their dogs to believe that dogs are only aggressive if you train them to be aggressive. The reality is, sometimes dogs just get "riled up" and accidentally bite or kill things. It really isn't even "aggression" because to the dog it's like an extension of "playing"- it's not their fault.
I mean, you can believe that a unicorn killed Lincoln, too. Having a certain belief doesn't make it not ass-backwards.
I mean, you can believe that a unicorn killed Lincoln, too. Having a certain belief doesn't make it not ass-backwards.
Like are you honestly trying to argue that there are no personality characteristics that are generally common (though not universal) to different breeds of dogs? Literally anyone who works with dogs professionally will tell you otherwise. Dogs became different breeds for a reason- because people were selecting for certain characteristics.
I mean, you can believe that a unicorn killed Lincoln, too. Having a certain belief doesn't make it not ass-backwards.
Like are you honestly trying to argue that there are no personality characteristics that are generally common (though not universal) to different breeds of dogs? Literally anyone who works with dogs professionally will tell you otherwise. Dogs became different breeds for a reason- because people were selecting for certain characteristics.
Then you didn't really read it. The takeaway is that dogs can absolutely be trained in a way that makes them aggressive. All dogs, of all breeds. No specific breed is inherently more aggressive than another.
Exactly this! Thank you for saying it better than I apparently could. I've tried to be clear from the get-go- all dog breeds can be loving and friendly, all dog breeds can be aggressive. I am definitely not trying to spread misinformation on that count. I am just getting my first dog as an adult and I don't want to set myself for a challenge that would potentially endanger my sweet kitty if I'm not up to it.
Also be nice to ashley!!!!
Also, (disturbing content alert) I have seen a black lab pick up a cat by the neck and shake it like a chew toy.