I have been looking at lots of info on weddings with budgets around 5k, since I think that is what we are zeroing in on for a budget.
It drives me bananas when people categorize their wedding as having a $1000 budget, $2000 budget, etc. but then go on to outline how many costs were paid by others.
"We had a $3000 budget and 80 guests and it was lovely! My mom bought my dress, my aunts bought and made all the food, the uncles bought the booze, my best friend did the photos" and so on. That is not a $3000 wedding. It's a $10k wedding, you just didn't have to pay the rest.
Not that there is anything wrong with people having generous families and talented friends, but it's so damn unrealistic not to add in fair market value for the services and goods you were gifted to get a true estimated cost. Especially when you are holding your wedding up as an example of a "$x budget wedding".
Sorry, "A Practical Wedding" is making me stabby.
Re: Lying About the Expense Snark
Well, no shit. I can make my budget work too if my best friend/ Vogue photographer pitches in.
I would rather have my family and friends be guests and enjoy the day. And I think I need to start auditioning new friends based on their ability to contribute to My Special Day.
I never even considered the fact that this is totally irritating at all budget levels! But I bet the omissions are the same relative percentages, just different amounts.
I don't get the push to pawn your wedding off as costing significantly less than it did. It's the AW side of frugality, and that just makes my head explode.