Ok we're having the wedding at my father's house. We decided on there because I have the most relatives that live in that area. We have a few relatives that don't live anywhere close (literally across the country), and we know they're not planning on coming, but I'm supposed to still send them an invite (Dad and Grandma both instructed me to because of drama from my cousin's wedding a few years ago). So I was thinking of including a little note inside the invites to the people who live across the country, basically saying that I know that everyone lives far away and may not be able to make it, and not to feel obligated to spend thousands flying in. Is there a nice way to put that?!!