In two weeks my fiancé is having his bachelor party (3 days) up north in Minnesota at a cabin with a bunch of his buddies. Recently I found out that they will be bringing and shooting guns for fun. They like to party, get completely wasted together and have a good time. And it always is a good time for them! But, with how many gun accidents I've read about over my life, I feel very worried about the accidents that MAY happen.
His argument: I am trying to micro-manage his bachelor party. He has good, level-headed friends that he trusts. That they won't use the guns when they are drinking (although I feel like they will drink the whole time so that is part of my concern)
My argument: Accidents with guns happen all the time. Some of the men (including my fiancé) do not have experience with guns. Alcohol + guns don't mix.
Am I just being overcautious? Should I just 'trust' that everything will be okay? I trust my fiancé! But again...accidents DO happen and I would never want him or any of his friends to get hurt. Especially at a secluded cabin where help is nowhere nearby.
Should I just give up my concerns and let him have the fun that he wants? I'm not trying to ruin his party!! I just wish guns weren't involved...
I need help!
Thanks in advance!