So I'm finding that I'm having issues and I'm not sure really how to approach the situation without pissing anyone off.
I have a really good relationship FI's mum and step-dad, as a wedding gift they are paying for the reception hall as a wedding gift so I anticipated them having opinions about that. We were okay with that to a degree.
We got engaged in October and we're getting married in August. Since FI sweats like a fiend and our colours are black and white with red accents, I started talking about black, short sleeved dress shirts. He has one and that's what influenced my idea. He never said a word and I've been talking about this since October.
Couple weeks ago they said they had to pick up a new outfit for his brother {who is his best man} and offered to buy FI's suit.
THEY NOW WANT HIM TO WEAR A JACKET AND WHITE SHIRT!
I stated - nicely but blatantly - that the guys were wearing black dress shirts with red ties and FI's tie is vastly different from everyone's and I debated on a tiny flower from my bouquet on him.
FI says "well i could wear a white shirt"
I got irritated with him for now flip flopping because he said nothing when I was talking about all black shirts.
We've now "compromised" he will bring the jacket, the dress shirt is still white but short sleeved.
What should I do? FI now has the idea his parents said after I've been talking about something basically opposite.
I know he's wearing it, and that's kind of how I've left it as but it's very much now a sore spot.
ALSO! We're doing a 'different' walk in idea. FI and his mother are walking in just ahead of my mum and I, FI really wants "Shoot to Thrill" by ACDC. Only only ONLY thing he has been adamant on, and I am fine with ACDC but FI's mother and I both suggested different songs from them - like "back in black" - but he really wants that song. Fine. I am cool with that.
Apparently FI's mother has texted FI saying she doesn't wanna walk into ACDC at allllll ..... uhm what?
I did put my foot down and say we're not changing it cuz it's what HE wants so much.
Do weddings make people crazy!?