tracking down shower RSVP's

Re: tracking down shower RSVP's

• LondonLisa member

  

  July 2015

  Yes, you are not the host so you should have nothing to do with RSVPs. 

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• MobKaz member

  

  July 2015

  futuremrsjms said:

  My Mom is hosting a shower for me and the RSVP date has passed.  She is missing a handful of RSVP's from some of my friend's.  A couple of them are girls that my MOH is also very good friends with, so I've asked her if she could check in with them.  Is it against etiquette if I ask my other group of friends whether or not they can attend? Thank you!
  

  You do not need to personally know a guest to follow up with their RSVP. The hostess should take care of the follow up. Simply give your mom or MOH the information and let them take care of it. My daughter had a few friends not RSVP. It turns out they did not receive their invitation. My daughter gave me their email and/or cell numbers. I merely "introduced" myself, and explained that we needed to know whether or not they were able to attend. It was an absolute non-issue that I did not know these women personally.

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• kvruns member

  

  July 2015

  I personally see nothing wrong with the MOH tracking them down since she knows them. I know for me it would be easier for a friend to text another friend to ask if she is coming than for my mom to do it since she doesn't text and many friends are like me and don't answer the phone if we don't recognize the call.

  Etiquette would say the host does it but I don't see an issue with it.

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• photokitty mod

  

  July 2015

  Give your mom the contact info and have her reach out to them. You should not be involved in the rsvps. If you call, it can put pressure on the guest to attend bc it would be embarrassing to tell you they can't come.

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• SP29 member

  

  July 2015

  Agreed, you should not be tracking down RSVPs. Give their contact info either to your mom or even your MOH, if she is willing to do the task.
  

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• Jen4948 member

  

  July 2015

  If your mom is hosting the shower, she needs to be the one to contact these guests who haven't RSVPd.  I'd give her their contact information.

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• Iamnowmrsjms member

  

  July 2015

  Thank you, everyone! I gave my Mom everyone's contact info so she could get RSVP's.  My shower was yesterday and it was wonderful!
  

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