Just wanted to give a little update on what is going on with that long wedding theme.
To start, the bride sent out an email telling everyone that they had to wear red or coral nail polish and lipstick. Now, I don't know the etiquette on this, but for now I've ignored it. I'm very dark and don't do well with reds or oranges.
The next thing was she did ask me if I bought my dress yet because all of the others did. I told her that I hadn't and the expression on her face was priceless. I told her that I have plenty of time as her wedding isn't until April, I have until at least late January to mid February to get it. I told her a lot of things can change I can get pregnant and then I'm stuck with a dress I can't return. Her response was that one of her bms is currently pregnant and bought her dress based on what she should be after she delivers..At this point I had to get a little bit of an attitude. I told her, "That is great for her, but what happens if she calculated her size incorrectly then she has to buy another dress and has had that so long that she can't exchange them. I need you not to worry I will have the dress."
Ugh, it's just something everyday. I literally get a text 4xs a week about a wedding that's not until April. I asked her if her moh is helping with anything because I wanted to see if she is bothering her as much as she is bothering me. She said that her moh got married like 12 years ago and didn't plan her own wedding because she was so young so her mother did it so she doesn't really know anything. So my question becomes, why is she your moh? My moh had been married for years and she just googled what she needed to know and brought the information back to me. Don't get me wrong I don't mind helping and answering questions but I feel like she is trying to find something to be stressed about. Like she ask me questions about her photographer and DJ when she would be asking those questions to them.