So I was giving a friend of mine some advice who is engaged, and having a really hard time right now. One of the things she said that caught my attention was, "This is supposed to be one of the happiest times of my life, and it's just not" My response was:
"Whoever said being engaged was one of the happiest times of your life obviously was loaded, didn't have to pay for their own wedding, didn't have a family of any kind, had a wedding planner who did e-v-e-r-ything, or, was high on crack. Constantly."
What do you ladies think about this? True for you, or not so much?
I didn't find being engaged to be "one of the happiest times of my life". Yes, it was exciting. But, I also thought more crap happened during our engagement than any other time during our relationship, and it seems like any kind of family issues, or turmoil always comes to the surface. DH and I fought more while we were engaged too, than we have since we've been married, or before we were engaged.
Just thought it would be fun to get everyone's input! Happy Friday ladies!