I have a long story, so I'll try to make it short. My daughter is getting married on Aug 1, 2015. She invited all family. However, an aunt who's husband (my brother in law) killed himself isn't liked by some family members. She has paid for half of the hall rental and will be surprising the B&G with a 2 night hotel stay. Here's the kicker: my daughter's grandfather and an uncle said that if the aunt is invited (already done) that they won't show up and that we will be considered "just as bad as her". My other sister in law is performing the ceremony and had a meeting with the family to discuss the aunt's invitation. She said she felt like she was in a firing squad. So now, the family wants me to un-invite her. Really? How am I supposed to do that? My husband said - what's worse, having 1 person mad at you or the whole family? I have NOT told our daughter yet as she has an anxiety disorder and also can't understand why people can't just get along. HELP!!!!!