Hello fellow knotties! I'm just looking for other people's advice on this topic.
So for my fiancee's bachelor party they are taking a bus into Portland, renting a hotel for 2 nights, doing the stripper thing of course, nothing fancy. Just today the best man said that my fiancee is going to owe at least $150 for the party. The best man booked a somewhat nice hotel but for all my fiancee cares they could stay in a motel 6 and he'd be happy with it. No one in the wedding party is struggling financially, they're all in their 30s and have fairly fruitful careers. We are paying for most of our wedding on our own.
Maybe I'm crazy but I don't think my fiancee should be putting money into his own bachelor party in this situation. How should he approach this situation without sounding like an a$$hole? My worry is that he's too nice and will fork up the money, or is it appropriate for them to be asking this? Thanks in advance!