I have a close friend that lives 12 hours away and that I have grown apart from but when we are together it's like time never passed. My fiance and I have finally decided on a smaller destination wedding and I chose 3 bridesmaids and didn't chose her. She is so far I figured she might not want to have all the responsibilities of being in the wedding when she may only come to the ceremony itself. We are close enough that I felt the need to let her know and she seemed fine at first. She wanted to know who I did choose and since finding out she refuses to get back to me. She hasn't answered my phone calls and the only text I've gotten is "I need to process all of this". I have gone back and tried to see if she still wants to be in it because its obvious that even if she can't make it to anything she still wants to stand beside me and I've read where other brides let friends get ready with the WP and all that day but she won't get back with me. Where do I go from here? Was it bad taste to go back and ask if she wants to be a bridesmaid?