My fiancé is in a band. He has three band members, and they are all married. One of the wives is my best friend and I already asked her to be my maid of honor. I know I am going to ask another band member's wife to be a bridesmaid because we are good friends. The third wife, I am not extremely close to. All three of us were some of her bridesmaids, even though we didn't know her that well. She had a very big wedding, with ten bridesmaids. I feel bad asking all the wives except her to be a bridesmaid. We don't want a big wedding like hers, so this girl will take up a space for a bridesmaid who could be one of my great friends, but my fiance says to include her to avoid drama, because she is a very dramatic person who could make a huge deal out of this. I don't know what to do.