So, my mother always told me she would make sure my wedding went exactly how I wanted it to, that she wouldn't let someone step over the line and try to take charge of the wedding or something like that. A few weeks ago though she text me asking if she could send Save the Dates and invites to people that she knew wouldn't come to the wedding and that weren't on my list. Her list included 9 people, only 3 of which I have actually met but haven't seen in years. I made it very clear from the moment my fiancé and I got engaged that our wedding was going to be very small, only our closest friends and family, 100 people or less. Needless to say my mothers actions have bothered me. I originally told her that we could send them Save the Dates but not formal invitations. She asked me why and I told her, once again, because our wedding was to be close friends and family only and that I only knew a few people that she named. After thinking about I feel that it's really crappy to only send Save the Dates, however I don't want to invite those people she named. What should I do?