So I never pictured myself walking down the aisle with my dad or my parents or anyone really. I actually never even pictured myself having a traditional wedding. But now I am and i have some decisions to make. Both my parents are in my life, I do get along with my dad to a point but we are not really close. My question is more along the lines of is it rude to walk down alone?
Re: Walking down aisle alone...
Contributing the sperm that created a person doesn't entitle a man to escort her at her wedding-especially if he does not have a close relationship with his daughter.
He should only be approached about escorting her if that's what she really wants.
But ultimately this is a decision that the OP has to make alone. I think she actually should only include her father in it if she does feel strongly that he should walk her down the aisle. If she doesn't, "including" him in the decision could be counterproductive.
I agree with this. I think if it isn't a big deal to you then maybe asking your parents how they feel wouldn't hurt?