XP: "And Guest"?

Re: XP: "And Guest"?

• Loopyseven member

  

  July 2012

  1 - invitations go out between 6 and 8 weeks before the event so you've got at least a month before you need to worry about this.

  2 - if they are single when the invitations go out, you're fine to invite them alone.  If they start dating someone in the 6 weeks before your wedding and you know it's serious, issue them a verbal invitation to "bring Johnny with you" if you want to.  No one can fault you for not inviting someone who didn't exist (in a social contract sort of way) at the time invitations went out.

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• Maggie0829 member

  

  July 2012

  It is up to you as to whether you want to give them a plus one.  If you have room in your budget it is always nice to extend the plus one option to your guests, but if you don't have room it is not rude to not give them the option either.
  
  As long as you know that they are truly single then you are fine either way.

  
  

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• starael member

  

  July 2012

  If you think they'll be uncomfortable without being able to bring a guest, and if you have room in your budget, give them a plus one.  If they are friends and will have fun together, then just invite them alone.

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• PJSPJS

  

  July 2012

  Good point, starael: these three guests are all co-workers and also friends, so they'll have a great time together without dates.

  

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