Hi All J
I am going to sound like a crazy person here, but honestly just looking for some input!
Fiance and I have been together 5 years, engaged over a year, we finally just decided to start wedding planning earlier this year for next July. But now…we want to try for another baby. Our son is already 4… I don’t really want to wait another year and then try. (Yes, I know, i’ve done it all wrong)
I have been thinking of every possible option…do we have late fall-winter wedding next year, wail until summer 2017, elope? I think my brain is going to explode.
Re: Baby/Wedding..postpone?
The only things that matter are what you two want and can afford.
I would just add in that if you were to consider overlapping the two, you need to factor in how you felt during each trimester of your first pregnancy. Working on the babymaking could result in some serious fatigue/hormonal stress/hurling-your-guts-out for several weeks even if you aren't showing enough to affect your wardrobe. Also, you never can be assured that the second pregnancy will follow suit to the first, so you would need to be prepared for that as well. I have a friend who had 2 easy pregnancies, and then puked pretty much every single day for the entirety of her 3rd. Not awesome for your wedding day. If it were me, I'd elope. Save the cash for baby expenses.