Okay, so I have a slight problem.. My FI doesn't have the best relationship with his real dad. He is however very close to his stepdad who is not exactly friendly with FI's real dad. So here lies the problem. FI has suggested simply(in his opinion) not inviting his real dad. I don't think this is right. In my opinion all the grown ups need to grow up for a couple of hours just for our day! This is very irritating to me. Grant it, I have been very lucky in the fact that my parents have been together for 29 years, and I have never been involved in a divorce. I understand that there are hard feelings but I honestly think they can be put away for one day for us. FI's mom agrees with me. She thinks that we should at least send an invitation to his dad. I mean if she can put it aside, shouldnt his stepdad be able to? Or am I being unreasonable?