We're looking at sending STD's in late January to our immediate family and OOT VIPs.
We know that not everyone needs a STD and everyone who receives a STD must be invited.
My question is, should I send them in circles? For example, I have close girlfriends who live out of town in the same circle as my girlfriends who live locally. Should I send the STD's to the whole group since they all talk so there's no one wondering why they didn't get one also?