I just got an Facebook evite to a baby shower for a friend. She is hosting it for herself at her own house! Good grief, when she became engaged a few months ago I offered to host a shower (this was before I knew she was pregnant), and she declined. The invite had some "cutesy" little poem about doing things in the wrong order. Ugh! All kinds of tacky - and I'm talking about giving yourself a shower, not having a baby before getting married even though the poem was a bit much.