Edited because I somehow posted too soon:
I'm just curious how much other brides had to do with the communication to groomsmen? Like, tux/suit rental info, day of timelines, speeches. (Is this even something to be expected of the best man? or is it at their preference? I only ask because FI's best man was a best man in a wedding we went to in May and was wasted when he gave his best man speech and during it kept saying "Oh man, no one told me I'd give a speech!")
My Bridesmaids and I are in contract often. 3 are my sisters and 1 is my best friend, so we're always in contact, not always about wedding related stuff. I feel like the girls have a good grasp on whats going on with our wedding and last week one of the groomsmen texted my FI and asked when the wedding was again because he was planning a vacation. I'm a little nervous.
Just to add, when FI asked the guys to be groomsmen, he asked them in person then sent them cards saying something like "I'm so glad you'll be my groomsmen." with the wedding date and venue location.