This may have been asked before but I couldn't find any similar questions before I posted. I have been approached by both my sister in law and Fi's sisters in law stating they want to host bridal showers for me. Obviously the guests from each side of the family are covered but they have each asked me about inviting the bridesmaids and any of my friends. I am stuck on how to include both of those groups on the invite lists. Do I invite bridesmaids and friends to both and let them pick which one to attend? That was my first thought but I don't want them to feel like they have to attend both and buy two gifts. What have any of you done in similar situations? Thanks in advance!!