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GlfGrl43016
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Gift for Moms as Thank you for throwing Shower
Not sure if everyone does this, but I know both of my sisters did it for their showers... I am trying to come up with ideas for gifts for my mom and FMIL for throwing my bridal shower. The shower is in January, so not sure getting flowers would be appropriate, like a flower pot to put in the garden... I was thinking about getting them gift certificates for a massage, so they can use it before the wedding. Any suggestions? Thanks!
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Re: Gift for Moms as Thank you for throwing Shower
If your mom and FMIL really like massages then that sounds like a great gift. You don't have to get them both the same thing though. Also a gift isn't necessary but I always like to give the host(s) something because hosts typically put a lot of time/money into events. With each gift I included a nice heartfelt thank you note as well.
The massage idea is nice too if you think they would go for it.
Flowers are absolutely appropriate any time of year... You just have to take care not to let them sit in a cold car where they'll catch a frost (hence why florists bag them up in a plastic bag before delivering when it's cold out)... If FTD can ship to Minnesota in January, you can give your Mom and MIL flowers for your January shower!
Massages are one of those deeply personal things that those who frequently get them have their person they use... I'm one that if someone got me a massage while a wonderful gesture, I'd likely re-gift or it'd never get used, so it's really important that you do check to see if that'd be something MIL would want/like - if you get a lukewarm reaction - go for something else!
With that said, a massage is an awesome gift, but know your audience.