Is it an etiquette faux-pas for a mother/FMIL to host the shower? I read recently that it is seen as gift grabby for the moms to host?
Both FMIL and her SIL keep asking me [separately] if I'd like them to host a shower for both families (since my sister is out of town and my mom is handicapped). I have told them both on a few occasions now that I think that would be nice and that my family would think so as well. But they have asked numerous times over the past 4 months and I get the feeling they want me to outright ask them to host one, which I won't do. But obviously if it's in poor taste for FMIL to host I want to be able to address that directly. Thoughts?