I give up... I went over to the 'Bee' forums because there seems to be a bit more traffic over there, but it's not worth it! I've now been told by a few people that I have 'crappy friends' because they're not all 'involved' in my wedding planning, or offering to do things for me, AND I'm not upset about it...
Oy.
Who knew not having friends who wanted to meet with vendors and set up my reception and need to know every detail meant I have crappy friends? Pretty sure that it just means I have friends who have interesting lives! Of course they'll be there to support me on the day, but jeez, I barely care about looking placecards- why in the heck would they??
To be fair, I'm sure if I *asked* these friends to do these things with me, they would, but it's time consuming and *not their job/duty/responsibility*--which seems to be something the bees can't wrap their head around...
I'm so glad I have the friends I do! And that they're there for me when I need them, and that they're not petty!
And I'm so glad people here have their heads on straight!
--Rant over--