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Dresses, Tuxes and Cake.... OH MY!

We are coming down to the wire, and EVERYTHING my FH does is getting on my nerves. It's as if I am looking for a way to out. I'm grumpy, nervous and every other emotion except HAPPY!

HELP!!! This isn't my first marriage, however, I certainly DO want it to be my last!


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Re: Dresses, Tuxes and Cake.... OH MY!

  • ShesSoColdShesSoCold bend over and I'll show ya mod
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    best4last said:

    We are coming down to the wire, and EVERYTHING my FH does is getting on my nerves. It's as if I am looking for a way to out. I'm grumpy, nervous and every other emotion except HAPPY!

    HELP!!! This isn't my first marriage, however, I certainly DO want it to be my last!



    How, exactly would you like us to help you?
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  • best4last said:

    We are coming down to the wire, and EVERYTHING my FH does is getting on my nerves. It's as if I am looking for a way to out. I'm grumpy, nervous and every other emotion except HAPPY!

    HELP!!! This isn't my first marriage, however, I certainly DO want it to be my last!



    How, exactly would you like us to help you?


    Maybe try taking a few shots?
    nerdwife
  • MobKazMobKaz Chicago suburbs member
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    best4last said:

    We are coming down to the wire, and EVERYTHING my FH does is getting on my nerves. It's as if I am looking for a way to out. I'm grumpy, nervous and every other emotion except HAPPY!

    HELP!!! This isn't my first marriage, however, I certainly DO want it to be my last!



    How, exactly would you like us to help you?
    Maybe try taking a few shots?
    But not at him, right?
    ShesSoCold[Deleted User]
  • Chocolate usually works for me.
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  • climbingsingleclimbingsingle NYC 'burbs member
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    I understand getting to that point where everything a person does gets on your nerves. But if you're really have second thoughts and are looking for a way out, that's not good.

  • I think that perhaps you need to take a weekend to just enjoy each other's company. You don't have to go away or do anything fancy, but set aside time where bringing up the wedding is a no-no. Do things that make you both happy. The goal would be to remind yourself of why you love each other and why you are taking that next step. I think it can be easy to get overwhelmed with the minutia and miss the big picture. Hope things work out!
    best4last
  • Therapy? 
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  • Had a "heart to heart" last night. @ernursej we have a game plan, and everything is going to be fine.

    Thanks to everyone who offered advice!

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