The world doesn't revolve around me, but wish it would just once in a while it would.
back story - DH is in a family wedding at the end of April. It's a Friday night. They still haven't decided when the RD is going to be. Might be Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday.
DH's sister had a baby. The christening could be the weekend before, of or weekend after the wedding.
I'm irrationally irritated that they do not have the foresight to think how their plans may effect us. We would love to make plane reservations, but are waiting on them to firm up plans. Note - we are the only OOT family members. Most of them live within 10 miles of each other. That includes the in-law side also. Basically the fact that we have to fly in is often off their radars.
Rationally I know it's not about us.
What is your rational or irrational annoyances this hump day?
What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests. Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated.