Originally I didn't want a videographer, but after to talking to my friends (and even the guy that does my hair) I want one now. Everybody has said that out of everything a videographer is a must have. I wasn't completely convinced until somebody told me how much I will appreciate it when people are gone (I know, kind of morbid). My grandparents are old and I would love to have that living memory of them giving speeches and what not, and I think it could be fun to show our kids someday. The problem is that I am the only one that wants one. I have thought about just using a camcorder and recording the ceremony and the speeches, but I don't want to be worried about where the camera is all night and I don't want to ask one of our guests to do it. I also think it would be fun to see everything that we miss. Does anybody have any thoughts or recommendations about what to do? Thanks!