My finace is thinking about using his late grandfather's ring. He was an incredibly important person in my fiance's life and it really is a sweet gesture from his family. However, I can't help but feel like I'm losing out on the tradition of helping to pick out his wedding band. I feel like this ring will always remind him of his grandfather and not of our personal wedding/marriage. Would it be asking too much if I ask to engrave our initials and wedding date on the inside? Maybe get both his grandparents initials and wedding date as well as ours? I would love any thoughts you have!