Hi everyone,
I'm just looking to see if anyone is in my boat or has any advice...
I do not want to invite my sisters partner to my wedding.
They have been "together" on-and-off for 6-7 years now. He has broken her heart badly multiple times but now is back in the picture once again.
I don't like a single thing about him, he and I are not compatible personalities and I hate that he's hurt my sister as much as he has. I don't think he's a good person. Last time I heard his voice, without even seeing him, I had a panic attack.
He gives me massive anxiety, and for that reason I want to keep him off the guest list.
My mum keeps trying to persuade me otherwise because my sister will be upset at me not including him. However my sister knows how I feel about him, so I don't know why I would suddenly change my mind for the biggest day of my life.
I'm already very tired of having this debate, can anyone offer advice?