So my dad and mom divorced when I was 2. We haven't had the best relationship (poor choices on his part) however he is still (somewhat) in the picture. When I say somewhat, I basically see him (maybe) once a year, and I'll get a phone call on my birthday. My mom dated someone for 13 years who basically helped raise me. They are no longer together. Anyway.....I'm in a dilemma as to who I want to dance with. I don't want to hurt my father's feelings by nixing him out of the wedding details (my mother is walking me down the aisle), and I don't want to hurt my mother's ex by nixing him out either. Any advice would be appreciated!!