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Blueyed228
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DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
**KentuckyKate**
Did you get an angry PM from that crazy mom on CC?
I did. She accused me of "Stirring the pot"
I did. She accused me of "Stirring the pot"
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
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Re: **KentuckyKate**
It says she sent it today at 6am. But it also says that my reply from 10 min ago was sent today at 6am so I cant be sure. But when I click on her name, her bio comes up.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
I really feel like she has some emotional problems so I didnt get into it with her. I just told her that I hope she seeks some professional help for her issues.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
She also used a lot of random capitalization in an attempt to make points.
I feel bad for her son and his wife. That is a whole lot of crazy to deal with.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
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[QUOTE]No angry PMs here! Bummer :(
Posted by KentuckyKate[/QUOTE]
Im surprised. She really must be crazy since you said in the post that you fbpm'd her son.
What a nutjob.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
[QUOTE]Yeesh. I hope she gets help too. I don't think either you or KyKate "stirred the pot." <strong>That poster stirred it when she came on TK and used her son and DIL's real names and wedding date. </strong> If TK gods ask about you two, I'll happily defend you both (although I already did by reporting that poster).
Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]
Right. What purpose did that serve? I think she probably thought TK was a lot smaller and that we might know who they were. She was trying to be vindictive by calling them out by name. Her son had a right to know that information about them that was truly identifying was being posted on the internet. I found their freaking address FFS.
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She's blamming TK for exposing the couple and still trashing them a bit in the PM.
Kate, you will definitely have to fill me in later.
[QUOTE]TBH it sounds like that whole family is a little crazy. <strong>With the mother of the bride coming on here etc. </strong> She said the whole family is fighting over this. Im not sure what she expected when she brought their personal information public. She also used a lot of random capitalization in an attempt to make points. I feel bad for her son and his wife. That is a whole lot of crazy to deal with.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
Wait a second... What? Where?
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She replied to the main thread today.
http://forums.theknot.com/default.aspx?path=http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_not-inviting-mother-of-groom
HTH.
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[QUOTE]Mica, She replied to the main thread today. <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/default.aspx?path=http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_not-inviting-mother-of-groom" rel='nofollow'>http://forums.theknot.com/default.aspx?path=http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_not-inviting-mother-of-groom</a> HTH.
Posted by NcsuPsych[/QUOTE]
OMG the irony and stupidity.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: **KentuckyKate** : OMG the irony and stupidity.
Posted by KentuckyKate[/QUOTE]
Yeah, my thoughts exactly.
WHO DOES NOT have issues. THat is NOT a valid reason to exclude a Mother. THanks for turning me into my son on Facebook. That really helped for the future if we could ever fix this mess. The reason i wasnt invited is because the ex's girlfreind did not want me there and my ex. He is a COACH and he coached all of them. all of my kids. my Mother,, my brother,m his wife, his kids. THAT is what he does BEST ! PLEASE POST THIS .
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ETA: And this woman's own mother and siblings. Wtf.
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Crasher1, there are countless posts suggesting you seek help. Not one person thinks you are in the right here or that your behavior is normal or justified. If you want to fix things with your son, accept some responsibilty and find someone to talk to. Your grown children and your own mother have not all been brainwashed to turn against you by your XH and his GF.
I am going to drop this now, for your son and DIL's sake.
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Part of the angry PM
"btw I am a Paraprofessional Mental HEalth WOrker by profession"
it also said something to the tune of us needing to get off the boards and go the the gym to hang out or something. I'm thinking we're not the ones that need to get off the board.
I really hope this family can be able to pull it together at some point.
It's sad that she still doesn't get her own culpability in all this, and why her family would support the son's decision to leave her out of the wedding. Even on the threads on TK, she displays just how far gone she is, out in the open, no one to "coach" us. We can all see it, and we're not her family, and we don't have a personal stake in the situation.
And even after she posted her son and wife's personal info on FB, and personally attacked other posters, she still passes the buck and doesn't take responsibility for her own actions. Blame KK for letting her son know that his personal info is floating around the 'net thanks to dear ol' "Mother," blame the son's dad and his girlfriend for turning the family against her, nothing about how her own behavior caused any of this drama and mess. She wants to be respected like a mom, but is approaching this entire situation like a defiant child. It's a sad situation and I feel sad for the family.