We went to a group tasting at our reception venue a few days ago. This was the first time we'd seen it set up for an event so we were walking around imagining how it'd be set up for our wedding.
Someone from the venue (either a manager or co-owner, can't remember which) came over to talk to us. I talk with my hands, so he probably thought I was signalling for help. We chit-chatted about how to arrange things and that was the point at which he said:
"If you want it to be more of a party, you don't really need a chair for everyone".
I side-eyed him and told him (probably not as politely as I should have) that we'd be springing for a chair for each of our invited guests. I may have snorted.
Even if I hadn't been binge-reading the Etiquette Forum (thanks, btw) I'd have thought that was a terrible idea because, you know, common sense.
Anybody else get terrible "advice" from their venue or vendors?